Kathy Brant
When I was in grade school, I looked forward to the “Ozzie and Harriet” tv show every week, in great part so I could see their son Ricky Nelson sing at the end of the show. I loved every song, and I thought he was handsome beyond handsome. Soon I was collecting all of his record albums and 45's, playing them over and over; I knew all the words of all the songs.
Ricky spilled into my burgeoning interest in drawing portraits too; his record album photos provided my models, and I was so proud of myself when friends could recognize him from my drawings. I kept them for years.
Though my childhood crush faded when I began dating "real" boys, I still bought any new song he brought to the national scene. Though now he had become Rick Nelson, he still made me smile. Many years into my adulthood I had the chance to see him live. It was a great show; he was in fine voice and handsome as ever.
Dec. 31, 1985. I was visiting my parents in the house of my childhood. When I came downstairs early in the morning, my mother told me there had had been a plane crash, and Rick Nelson was dead. Tears popped into my eyes; I was sad for the talented man whose life was cut short and sad for the little girl of my memories who lost "her" Ricky.